The Dos & Donts of Getting Out of a Conversation With a Chatty Coworker

The Dos & Donts of Getting Out of a Conversation With a Chatty Coworker Officesmall talkis a fact of life. You cant avoid it. Not at the water cooler, on your way to the bathroom, or during the first few minutes of meetings as everyone awaits the stragglers.Whetzu sich youre typically the conversation starter or the desk hugger, having conversations with your co-workers is important.Therbeie are many benefits of getting to know your colleagues. Knowing some basic information about your boss and peers gives you a lot more content to talk about than the weather, politics and who won the ball game belastung night. Other benefits include great teamwork, positive employee morale, increased productivity, and a natural and happy work atmosphere.With that being said, there are days when you simply dont have a lot of time to mingle. Those days can get stressful when the office chit-chatter grabs your ear and wont let go. So, how do you get out of the conversation without offending your collea gue or creating an awkward moment? Here are tips on what to do and what not to do in this situation.The DosListen When little miss chatter box starts talking about her weekend, listen to what she has to say. By neglecting the conversation, you are being insensitive and also exhibiting the poor professional trait of being a bad listener. A 5-minute exchange about the Beyoncand Jay-Zconcert she saw the other day isnt going to ruin your day. If anything, it may be a nice distraction from your reality.Tell the TruthWithout leading on the conversation for too long, be honest about why now isnt a good time to talk. Maybe youre in the zone, trying to meet a deadline, catching up on emails, finishing something before you run to a meeting, trying to focus, or etc. Believe it or not, your chatty co-worker has been there before and will understand your need for silence. Before she leaves, ask her if shes free to continue the conversation over lunch or during an afternoon walk.The DontsRun For Cover When your colleague says, Hey Jess, dont sprint to the break room. Theres nothing wrong with someone saying hello. Plus, your grandiose hiding spot could backfire when you find out shes on her way to the same place.Look MiserableWhile you may be stressed, theres no need to roll your eyes. Its important to recognize that your chatty co-worker isnt the stem of the problem. Sometimes your body language expresses more than words. Be conscious of what you say and how you act as you could easily take out your frustration on an innocent party.If you know you have a busy day or week ahead, anticipate office small talk and how you can handle the conversations in a respectful and professional manner. Remember, there are a lot worst things that can happen at work than having to engage in a conversation with your chatty co-worker.And as they say, if you cant beat em, you may as well join em.--Kristen Farrell is a professional communicator who previously worked inhuman resources. She share s career lessons and everyday experiences on herblogkristen-farrell.com. When shes not writing, youll find her running, crafting, or spending time with her husband, Jonathan and cat, Trotsky.